March Blog Challenge
Day 13: do you have any regret?
March 13, 2013
What a great question. I think as human beings we naturally have
regret. As I’ve matured and learned that it is through our experiences, or
failures, that we learn. So, should we regret? Our life paths have led us to
where we are today, who we are, and will lead us to whom we will become. Even
through everything I have been through, the pain and sacrifice, it is a part of
me. Should I regret that? Let me put it to you another way; if we have regret,
then we regret what God is blessing us with. We might not see it as a blessing,
but we don’t know what the regret may teach us for later. At least, that’s my
opinion.

Top 5 What I Have Learned From
My Regrets
5.) Love – don’t be afraid to love. Guard your heart; just don’t guard
it so tight and so closed off that the wall you build becomes permanent. Learn
from your past relationships, but don’t project them onto anyone else. God did
say that the greatest is love. It is true too, when you put love out there, you’ll
receive love back.
4.) Fear – growing up, I had this horrible distortion of myself that
crippled my ability to enjoy years of my life. Social pressures and
expectations were like a ball and chain clamped around my ankle – and it was
all within my own psyche. If you look through magazines and feel upset that you
don’t look like the people in them, then stop looking at that magazine. Don’t
let people who call you negative names affect you – they have issues of their
own. Have pity on them, how sad that they feel the need to hurt someone else,
and pray for them.
3.) Medical – never hesitate
to get a second opinion, ask questions, or say “no.” Remember, that there is a
reason that it is called practicing
medicine. If a medical professional is around you and they seem to exhibit
signs of being sick themselves (sneezing or coughing) ask them for someone else
to assist you (especially if you have any skin openings or wounds of any
kind). They may suggest that they could
put a mask on, a medical gown, and sterile gloves. While this could prevent a
possible infection, you have to decide your comfort level and possible risks.
Don’t let them bully you, you’re their boss (don’t bully them either.)

1.) Parenting – love your children. When I was younger, I had made this
joke that people needed to get a licenses for various things, so why not to be
a parent. There is so much knowledge and truth to the saying that it takes a village
to raise a child. But, you are the
parent, act like it. It is important that the parent/child relationships are
set. Everyone has their own way of doing things and everyone is unique
(especially children). What may work for one child isn’t going to work for all
children necessarily. So, just remember that there is NO perfect parent. No one is perfect, do what you can do and if you
feel overwhelmed, seek help. It is o.k. to admit that you can’t do it all
yourself. Even these “super mom’s” have their boiling points, bad days, and
need time for themselves too.

Until next time or the next… dream
K.E.Nowinsky
Goingoffdreams.com
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